top of page
All Posts


Thresholds - Going “beyond the choke”
Lewis’s euthanasia was scheduled for 17 January 2026. On a very windy, November afternoon, the day after Lewis’s 19th birthday, I stood wailing in the Dawlish Warren nature reserve. I had just moved “beyond the choke”.
5 min read


Memorialising your pet through photography
"We’re all too happy to document the early years... but we often forget to document the moments when we’re just relaxing together, perfectly content in each other’s presence." When the time with a best friend is short, a photoshoot isn't about perfection; it’s about capturing the soul. Discover the story behind Lewis’s final portraits and learn how to memorialise your pet’s unique routines and rituals before they are gone.
3 min read


Alternatives to pet “ownership”
"There is no getting over them or replacing a person who seemed to have a direct line between their heart and yours." For many, losing a companion animal feels like losing a part of themselves - their dæmon. If you aren’t ready to "take the leap" into ownership again, there are other ways to honour that love. Explore meaningful UK-based alternatives, from fostering for those fleeing domestic violence to supporting terminally ill guardians and their pets.
7 min read


Caregiver support during periods of high intensity
"Rearing a cat feels vaguely similar to raising a child - in reverse." As Lewis celebrates his 19th birthday, we reflect on the transition from the "age of independence" to a stage of deep dependence. While society offers a village for new parents, caregivers of super-senior pets often navigate the sleepless nights and emotional strain alone. Explore why we need a holistic framework for veterinary palliative care that supports the human at the other end of the leash.
6 min read


Key concepts in (animal) palliative and hospice care
"In sensitive life-and-death conversations, language is everything." Many believe palliative and hospice care are interchangeable, but the distinction is vital for a pet's longevity and quality of life. From interdisciplinary support to the role of end-of-life doulas, explore the key concepts that shift our focus from "fighting disease" to providing a dignified, compassionate journey for our animal companions and their caregivers.
6 min read


Life lessons from one year of living on a farm
This week, it’s been a year since we moved into a converted barn on a working farm in beautiful Devon. Seeking a quieter life outside of London...
6 min read


The Call - Compassionate Communication with People Who Grieve
Here are some basic guidelines on how to communicate compassionately with grieving people
4 min read


Great Endings
How to communicate with pet guardians who are going through grief in a compassionate, non-harmful way Half a year ago, I was asked...
10 min read


Winter Reflections
I am usually not one for making New Year’s resolutions; I tend to stick to “Another Year on Earth" resolutions, taken during....
7 min read


Not ready, but prepared
For a person who encounters endings daily and does their best to make these as dignified and well-planned as possible, I am not ready for...
4 min read


Reimagining the Sales Process: Why I said goodbye to the Cone of Shame in my veterinary business
Read the useful information of my late-sales funnel without having to give me any of your data.
6 min read


Why we should perform regular veterinary health checks for senior pets
When you have a senior pet, your veterinarian will tell you that it is very important to visit them regularly for check-ups. That...
7 min read


Brush your Bestie – Why we need to brush our ageing cat or dog for their well-being and ours
My mornings are dictated by a few non-negotiables: taking time to slowly wake up and eating a wholesome breakfast preferably in bed. I...
5 min read


Why it really is a Good Death - three most frequently asked questions about Euthanasia
Photo by David Gabrić on Unsplash Most people would prefer their pet to die peacefully in their sleep, rather than having to decide to...
6 min read


Is my cat or dog in pain?
How do you know your cat or dog is in pain? Read this blog post to find out!
3 min read


A love letter to Autumn
Photo credit: Karina B. on Unsplash I was born around the Autumn equinox. Having come to know myself better, I couldn’t have been born at...
3 min read


Ten questions that define whether a pet and their human family needs palliative support
Photo credit: Tereza Hošková on Unsplash Are you not sure whether your pet needs specialist palliative or hospice care or whether you...
2 min read


How to give a cat oral medication
This is a short article with handy tips to make giving your cat medication easier.
5 min read


Pet death and children; how to support your children through grief
How to support your children through your pet's (imminent) death?
3 min read


How pets grieve their animal companion
Why we always insist pets are present during or after the euthanasia of their house mate
2 min read
bottom of page
