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Thresholds - Going “beyond the choke”
Lewis’s euthanasia was scheduled for 17 January 2026. On a very windy, November afternoon, the day after Lewis’s 19th birthday, I stood wailing in the Dawlish Warren nature reserve. I had just moved “beyond the choke”.
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Memorialising your pet through photography
"We’re all too happy to document the early years... but we often forget to document the moments when we’re just relaxing together, perfectly content in each other’s presence." When the time with a best friend is short, a photoshoot isn't about perfection; it’s about capturing the soul. Discover the story behind Lewis’s final portraits and learn how to memorialise your pet’s unique routines and rituals before they are gone.
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Alternatives to pet “ownership”
"There is no getting over them or replacing a person who seemed to have a direct line between their heart and yours." For many, losing a companion animal feels like losing a part of themselves - their dæmon. If you aren’t ready to "take the leap" into ownership again, there are other ways to honour that love. Explore meaningful UK-based alternatives, from fostering for those fleeing domestic violence to supporting terminally ill guardians and their pets.
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Caregiver support during periods of high intensity
"Rearing a cat feels vaguely similar to raising a child - in reverse." As Lewis celebrates his 19th birthday, we reflect on the transition from the "age of independence" to a stage of deep dependence. While society offers a village for new parents, caregivers of super-senior pets often navigate the sleepless nights and emotional strain alone. Explore why we need a holistic framework for veterinary palliative care that supports the human at the other end of the leash.
6 min read
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