Seven months after losing Lewis, I've found that grief has its own rhythm - one my favourite Jason Mraz song captured perfectly. This is the story of the three things I've leaned on since he died: sitting with the emotions, finding gratitude for the time spent together, and finding a way to honour those who have been lost.

A friend recently asked me: "What is the colour of your grief?" I didn't have an answer then — but around the same time, I'd started thinking of my grief being measured in time. Lewis died six months ago, today.

For many, a pet isn’t just a housemate; they are the "anchor" that defines home. When that bond is severed, the resulting "homesickness" reveals a profound loss of security and identity. This article explores the delicate balance of caregiving, the myth of post-pet freedom, and why the future of veterinary care must embrace holistic support for the grieving human-animal family unit.

After 17+ years of side-by-side companionship, I said goodbye to Lewis, the "feline love of my life." This article explores the raw, sacred process of a slow farewell: from final home rituals and a symbolic shroud to the "synchronicities" that suggest a lingering connection. It is a reflection on pet bereavement, the power of grief-informed support in the workplace, and how creating meaningful rituals can help bridge the void when a piece of your soul is no longer physical.

"There is no getting over them or replacing a person who seemed to have a direct line between their heart and yours." For many, losing a companion animal feels like losing a part of themselves - their dæmon. If you aren’t ready to "take the leap" into ownership again, there are other ways to honour that love. Explore meaningful UK-based alternatives, from fostering for those fleeing domestic violence to supporting terminally ill guardians and their pets.

How to support your children through your pet's (imminent) death?

Why we always insist pets are present during or after the euthanasia of their house mate